It is on every guy’s mind to know whether a girl likes him or not. Attraction is a very common feeling between males and females, and while a lot of the times it initiates from the guys, it is not common to have a girl like the guy first.
When the girl likes the guy, the guy tend to become curious to know whether the girl likes him or not. The guy is also curious about how much the girl likes him. A girl can do a lot of things to leave subtle hints for the guy about how she feels. Sometimes these hints are also ways for the girl to determine what kind of a guy she has picked. As such if she likes you at a first glance, be prepared for a change of feelings in a second meeting. While this is very rare, it can happen. It is important for you to understand the different signs that a girl is attracted to you and how you can interpret and react to them.
She Smiles at You
Guys always forget that girls are very conservative about their smiles, as such if they are smiling at you; it is probably because they are attracted and interested. If a girl smiles at you, then do not feel like you have just climbed Mt. Everest. Rather let the moment pass and be as normal as you can be. Following that remember to smile back at her to show that you are interested as well. A smile is an invitation to friendship and acquaintance, meaning there are chances that things may work out.
She Repeatedly Gazes at You
Observe her looks and gaze. Use your peripherals to the best of your ability to determine where she is looking at. Is she looking at you constantly? Does she divert her look at you when you are looking away? Where does her look go when you suddenly look at her? These are signs that she is rather shy in nature; however also that she is interested in talking to you. Hence, go over and start a conversation like gentleman.
She Makes You Notice Her
If she is making special attempts to obtain your attention then yes she is attracted to you. Sitting a few seats or at some distance from you, if she is trying to be extra loud or laughing an extra notch, it does mean she would like for you to notice her. If she seems to be doing activities that are a bit strange, then perhaps you noticing it is her main goal. If she passes sarcastic or rhetorical comments then it can be a clear-cut sign of her attraction to you.
She Shows off Her Hair
Every girl adores her hair, and boys are attracted to girls’ hair as well. 90% of women’s pheromones are released from the top of their scalp and the hair. As such if she is flaunting off her hair in front of her friends, or if she opens them when you meet, it means she wants you to notice them. Getting attracted to her hair can mean you’re getting attracted to her.
She Inquires About You
With various social networking websites today it is rather easy to track and discover someone virtually. If she happens to want to be friends on a social networking site and takes the initiative to contact you first, then it most surely means that she is looking to start something, anything.
If however you discover through a mutual friend that the girl is otherwise inquiring about you, then it also means that she would like to get to know you more. Girls are genetically programmed to attain background information about someone they like before making an approach directly.
She Starts a Conversation with You
If she comes over and starts talking then there is nothing much left to say but to try and interest her in you.
Remember that if she is a girl who comes up to you and initiates a conversation; it means that she is rather confident about herself and her approach. So keep this in mind when you start talking to her. This is because a confident girl is only attracted to and by a guy who is more confident than her.
She Makes Physical Contact
If you are sitting together and she slides her hands over to your side and touches yours, it means she is open to certain physical contact matters. As such take liberty of this act and surprise by perhaps moving your hands away the next time she approaches you, but immediately grabbing hers right after having confused her. Even if she is making physical contact, and it means that she is attracted to you, remember to keep it at a minimum for a while, because it still very well may be a test.
She is Open about Sexual Matters
Some women are rather open and comfortable discussing matters of sexuality and sexual activities. Some are even comfortable and willing enough to discuss sexual matters that excite them in the moment. Understand this as a very positive sign of the bonding that is between you two. Talk freely about them but avoid graphic details and from your side be calm and relaxed so she knows that you are willing to talk about anything and not just sexual matters.
Being just the few basic signs of a girl being attracted to a guy, even two or three of these are enough to determine a girl’s attraction to a guy. When and if a girl likes a boy, she will try to do all that she can to get his attention. Contrary to belief girls can also start flirting with guys on surprise. While this is a very positive thing, some guys tend to interpret it the wrong way. If a girl is interested or attracted to a boy, it does not mean she is willing to having sexual intercourse with him. It is simply the starting point of something that may possibly blossom into a relationship. As such understand and respect a girl’s attraction to you.