Sex is a complete fantasy, until and unless it is experienced. When people get puberty, more or less they start to feel it in different ways. First of all, people discover themselves
They want to know themselves, and then start to compare with opposite sex, and thus the feelings get started. This feeling is completely ridden on fantasies. Usually, you will be discovering many new things the first time you have sex. This discovery mainly goes with opposite sex partner’s body. First timers will be amazed at every moment that passes by, when they will experience everything one after another in a sequential order.
It is very natural that most of the first timers are highly tensed about what is happening or what lies in store as this is a completely different experience for them. This article focuses on all the first timers problems and corresponding solutions as well as some prior tips to mentally prepare for the sex with all feel good factors.
But no sex never follows any rules, so don’t take all these tips as rules; they just give you guidelines that you may handle during your job.
Definition of Sex
Basically sex arises from the natural feelings of your body that want support from your partner, for getting mental as well as physical satisfaction. This feeling is natural for a healthy human being after his or her puberty. It starts up from your mind as a feeling of love and ends up with a demand of your body in form of love making. And the body gets enormous satisfaction, and mind cools down.
What to know first before sex? You should know you and your partner’s passion first. Be ready mentally that you are going to have sex. Don’t be in a hurry. Take time to know more about your partner’s body.
This is the time; most probably you are going to know opposite sex very personally and with the most intimacy. Don’t be so excited that your heart beats more frequently, though it is very tough to avoid this. Cool yourself down.
When you both have determined that you will make love, you most probably passed some basic feelings of hug, kiss and caring touches. Because, these have made you come closer. No matter, if both of you are meeting for first time as many couples from Indian subcontinent do so. Just start with nice chat, have fun and try to be easy with each other.
However, for having a pleasant sex you must have to keep out all mental stretches. Have sufficient time and a suitable place that you find most comfortable.So, find yourselves which time and place is better for your love making.
Don’t have a heavy meal just before sex or have sex at least 2-3 hours after you have taken any meal. Also take rest before sex, it will make you energized.
Prepare your bed. Make it comfortable as you like best. Spray your room with fragrances. Dim the light inside your room; specially use the light colour you like most. All these create a lovely ambiance for having sex. Set your air conditioner at a pleasant temperature level. You may keep condoms ready.Take a bath together if possible. This makes both of you relaxed.
Start With Foreplay
Now you are ready to get closer to each other. Best point of start is, both lie down and hug each other. Kiss your lips and gently touch each other. Your female partner is more tending to response when you kiss her shoulders, ears and throat. Male partner may not know where to touch that is appealing for you and this is normal. You just tell him or hold his hands and place them where touches create feelings for you.
Male partner is stimulated when you touch his balls and penis’s lower side in a direction to its top. Again female partner is more excited when you touch, rub or even suck her nipples. Do this with each nipple until she stops you. Now you touch her clitoris gently and rub it. It may be a little bit larger and harder and she is responding more each time you rub.
This moment may be right time to align you in 69 position. 69 positions is such a position when both of your mouth is near the genitals of each other.
Now female partner will suck and the male will lick clit till you are not fully on. Male partner will stroke by getting one finger inside her so she will be prepared for the ultimate job.While pushing finger, he will experience a rough surface just at the mouth of inner vulva which is a point of excitement for her and penetrating the finger a little deeper he will feel a soft muscle which will push his finger, this is the G spot.
He should apply stoke on this G spot and even bend his finger like come here gesture so that she feels the ultimate pleasure. This time she gets a discharge like peeing, which is her ejaculation and thus getting turned on.
Now It Is Time To Do
Now you are completely ready to do the job. But most of the first timers hesitate how to do it now. If he finds it complex, she should ride on him. This makes the penetration easy for her and the job gets well done. Find the positions you feel comfortable. When you are done, leave your bed and wash your genitals, this is a healthy practice.
First Timers Face Some Embarrassing Situations
So far whatever we discussed, may not be so similar as most of new love makers experience. You may see your male partner discharging very soon or get your female partner just cool down. Don’t worry. You are experiencing it for first time and may be hyper. If something happens like these, just take rest being closer to each other. If possible have some sweetmeats. This will energize both of you later. After taking a rest you may repeat total process as you feel better.
Again, some female may feel hurt during penetration. But if it is nourished properly, no pain may be felt. Tell him to open you up gently. Take time for this. Again he also may get hurt when his top gets full open. Handle it slowly.
The right way to cope with embarrassing situations during sex is the right knowledge. If any one of you is experienced, help another to get job done easily. Many men and women think that penis size matters for sex. But really it is not true. Vagina is such an organ which may adopt bigger or smaller penis and enjoys same orgasm. Actually, most sensibility in vagina occurs from its inner mouth to just bellow the pubic bone. So if you are the right players, size never does anything more for you.
Sometimes, girls are anxious about their pregnancy. It is true. To avoid any accident, use condoms. But avoid contraceptives and pills. Even if you are doing without condom, she should get up immediately after his discharge in hers and wash them out or make him ejaculating outside yours.
More over love making depends on knowledge, understanding and care for each other. Though it varies from one to another, know how you feel best by practice. Hope this article will be helpful for you as a good lover on next sessions.