Have you ever wondered what women expect from us men when we are out on a date with them? It seems that no matter what we do, it’s hard to meet their expectations. When asked about what advice they had for men regarding dating, here is what a few women had to say.
Dating Tips For Men
Be On Time
Do not be late – this is a woman’s prerogative and not a man’s. A man is expected to show up on time, if not earlier. Women hate it when they are made to wait. Sitting alone at a restaurant or at a bar, waiting for her date to turn up, is something no woman likes.
Make sure you cancel any appointments and do not make any appointments close to the appointed time of your date. Reach at least ten minutes ahead of time. If, however, you are going to be delayed due to some unavoidable or unforeseen reason, do let your date know that you will be delayed.
Hide The Egotist In You
If you are an egotist or an egoist, these traits are better left behind at home when you are out on a date. Women are put off by men who think no end of themselves or cannot stop talking about themselves.
When you are out on a date with a lady, let it be more about her than about you. If you find yourself talking too much about yourself, stop, apologize and change the topic.
First Date Expectations
While most men wish they could, very rarely would you find a woman who would be willing to go all the way on a first date. Do not try to kiss a woman on a first date without first seeking her permission to do so. Do not presume that a woman wants to jump into bed with you if she gives you a longing look or holds your hand.
Looking At Other Women
Men do not realize that they do this, but there are several men out there who can’t take their eyes off of the other women in the room, while they are on a date with. This is not only an embarrassment to the woman he is out on the date with but also shows him in bad light. If you want to check out women, do it when you are alone and certainly not when you are out on a date.
Hit On Us, We Like It
Women like being hit on, so don’t be afraid to turn on the charm and get flirty with your date. Having said that, it is important to know how far to take the flirting. Stop if she asks you to stop flirting. Don’t make her feel uncomfortable. Don’t say anything that would make her feel uncomfortable.
Be A Gentleman
If you ask a woman out, you need to foot the bill. Do not expect the woman to pay. This is what a gentleman would do. As a gentleman, you will also be expected to mind your language and your manners. Avoid using foul language when in the presence of the lady. Be responsible, don’t get drunk. If you cannot hold your drinks, avoid alcohol.