Alright, so there’s this really cool person in college/office you have a crush on. The only problem? That person has no idea about your feelings. Worse, you don’t have an inkling of how to impress your crush without looking too desperate. No doubt it would be difficult to approach the person you have a crush on. Fear not though, for here are some simple, practical and really effective tips that would help you impress your crush and reveal your feelings about him/her in the process. Follow these tips and you will have your crush developing a major crush on you in no time at all.
Here Are 6 Super Smart Tips To Impress Your Crush:
The best way to impress your crush is to be yourself and keep your basic character, behavior and attitude intact no matter what. Pretending to be someone you are not will only lead to tricky situations in the future when your crush comes to know about your true side. So make sure you are what you are and your crush is bound to notice you eventually.
Dress To Impress
If you want your crush to notice you, you need to take an effort to look good. That doesn’t necessarily mean wearing revealing outfits and a truck load of makeup. No, that would actually get you the wrong kind of attention from everyone around. Wear nice looking clothes you are comfortable in. Opt for light, care free makeup that would make you look naturally beautiful. Take an extra effort to check on your appearance at regular intervals. While sporting a disheveled look would not gain you any attention, looking bright and pristine would definitely turn heads, including that of your crush.
Do Some Detective Work
Looks can deceive. There are strong chances that your crush may be attractive on the outside but not that nice on the inside. So snoop around and get to know more about him/her. Find out about his/her personality, behavior, attitude and likes. In addition to getting to know him better, this can help you set the groundwork for your plan as explained in the next step.
Find Common Grounds
A good thing about getting to know about crush better is that it would allow you to find out about his/her likes and interests. This in turn, would enable you to establish common interests which would help draw you together. It is this common factor that would also help you approach your crush and start a conversation. So look out for something common in between you two to act as the conversation starter.
Never Stop Smiling
This is a bit tricky considering the fact that your smile needs to send the right kind of signals to your crush. You need to be careful enough to smile just right in order to avoid looking desperate. A few furtive glances, a nice smile and a nonchalant look will let your crush know that you are looking at him/her. Know that the perfect smile is the best way to start a conversation. So practice that a few times before the mirror and then work your magic on your crush.
Become Friends First
Blurting about your feelings to your crush at the very first meeting would most probably not be the best thing you can do. Become friends with him/her first and hang out with him/her a bit. This would allow you to know your crush better and vice versa. This period of friendship would also give you the time to prepare yourself for the impeding confession. It would also reduce the chances of your crush laughing out at you or giving you the cold shoulder once you reveal your true feelings about him/her.