If you feel that only girls can have turn offs, then you are completely wrong. For guys can get turned off by a lot of things as well. Here is a list of 13 of the most common things in a girl that are complete turn offs for guys. If you seem to follow any or all of these habits, consider changing them immediately to prevent your guy from running off.
Here Are 13 Things Guys Hate About Their Girls:
That’s right girls! While your guy may love the way you take care of your nails, he may not be very fond of their length. Not many girls know that long fingernails are one of the biggest turn offs for men. In addition to making you look ghostly, the nails would hurt your boyfriend when you are close together. So keep your nails trimmed, short and simple.
Guys absolutely detest girls who come off as being too desperate. The type of girls guys usually like are those who are strong and independent, and ask for their boyfriend’s help only in dire situations. So if you keep clinging to you guy and are constantly rattling about how you cannot live with him, trust him to fly out of the door the next instant.
Too Easy an Attitude
While desperation is a big turn off for boys, an easy attitude doesn’t make matters any better. A girl who sports a ‘too easy’’ attitude would definitely send out the wrong signals to everyone around her, including her boyfriend. A girl with an easy attitude would also tend to blurt out everything about here on the first date itself. On the other hand, guys like girls who are not so open on the first date, but mysterious enough to divulge only the basic details and let him find out more, thereby keeping their relationship fresh and interesting.
Too Much Perfume
While you may want to smell good for your guy, you don’t need to turn up smelling like a skunk on your date. Too much perfume is something guys never tolerate well. So opt to keep it light and minimal instead of spraying yourself with too much perfume that he won’t be able to breathe when near you.
Of course everyone loves to rescue a damsel in distress, especially if it involves a girl who is not so smart. But if you think playing dumb is going to get your boyfriend closer to you, you are wrong. Guys are turned off by women who play dumb constantly. They like girls who are smart and have their own opinions on things. So be yourself and make it a point to speak out your mind instead of letting him take all the decisions.
This is one of the major turnoffs for guys. Guys most definitely cannot stand their girls talk ill about someone. If you constantly gossip about someone, trust your boyfriend to reprimand your act. If you continue to gossip anyways, chances are he would stop seeing you for who you are and consider you to be a bad backbiter.
Talking To Your Ex
This is a dangerous one. Guys hate it when they see their girlfriends talk freely with their ex-boyfriends. Your boyfriend can get turned off quickly if you continue to talk about your ex in front of him let alone compare them both. This would sooner or later lead to heated arguments wherein your boyfriend would finally ask you to move out and rekindle your relationship with your ex rather than talk about him all day long.
Playing Hard To Get
A lot of us girls love to play hard to get with guys in order to give them a little challenge in winning over our hearts. Be forewarned girls that while a little game would do you no harm, playing too hard to get can actually become a turn off for your guy who would then move on thinking that you are really not interested in the relationship. So stop playing hard to get (at least too hard) and grab the opportunity to express your feelings as and when it comes your way. Who knows, you may not get the chance to express them later on.
Sending Mixed Signals
Guys tend to hate mixed signals as much as we do. Whether it is a yes or no, they like ‘straight in your face answers’. So sending him mixed signals would only work for some time before it becomes a major turnoff that could potentially kill the relationship for good. So be blunt and upfront for that’s what your guy will like in you.
Guys give their girls the independence to make their own choices at times. And it is perfectly normal that they expect the same from their girls as well. Being overbearing is a huge turn off for guys who simply can’t bear their girlfriend butting in on every single decision they make. So stop being his mother. Become his soul instead, taking care of him without actually sitting on his head.
Trying To Change Him
This is one simple truth many girls out there fail to understand, and in doing so, sour their relationship. A guy would want his girl to accept him for who he is rather than what she wants him to be. Trying to change them according to personal preferences is a big turnoff that would see them heading out of the front door before you even know it. So let him be and love him like that instead of changing him to suit your likes and dislikes.
Making Him Jealous
There is no doubt that your boyfriend would feel jealous if you talk about another guy in his presence. However, if you continue to do the same, you would only be cooking up the perfect recipe for disaster. Talking about another man in front of him is a huge turn off for a guy who would think that you are no longer interested in him. And sooner or later, he is going to walk out on you for the same reason. So stop talking or flirting with other guys in his presence.
Being A Clone
Stop being a clone and imitating other girls. While guys would want their girls to dress or act a certain way, they would most definitely not want them to clone others to the ‘T’. Guys crave originality and want a girl who is special and unique. So be yourself rather than trying to be a clone of every other girl out there.